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LittleP
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Post by LittleP »

Debbie - I am so sorry :cry: . I am sure that I can speak for us all by saying we were really hoping that it was going to be a different result for you :!:

Take care and look after yourself.

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kimbo
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Post by kimbo »

debbie,
so sorry :( hopefully it will be third time lucky for you :)
take care
love kim
me 35 -dp 29
unexplained but i have polycystic ovarys which they say is not the cause?
1st attempt at IVF
randa2006
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Post by randa2006 »

Well said, Little P. Debbie, you are on my mind often. Remember, multiple tries increases those odds!
Hugs to you and all the girls who have had -ve.
Randa
Me 44, DH 40
ttc 0, went straight to IVF
1st EC = Feb 05, 5 frosties, no transfer attempt
2nd EC = June 05, cancelled
3rd EC = Sept 05, 4 frosties, no transfer attempt
4th EC/ET = Feb 06, 3 transf., BFN
5th EC/ET = May 06
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Post by lumi »

So sorry Debbie, thinking of you.

Lumi
me 31 DH 33
3rd FET...BFP...TWIN GIRLS!!!
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Post by wendy30 »

Hi Debbie

So sorry to read your treatment didn't work.

Wendy
TTC 7yrs, Me 35 (severe endo) DH 36
IVF nov06 8th time lucky BFP! - 1 baby boy
FET Aug o8 - BFN
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Post by rajiravi »

Hi Debbie,
I am so sorry for you. I know many many comforts is not going to calm you down. But hang in there and I am sure some great surprise is waiting for you.

You will be on my mind the whole time
Raji
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Post by debbieed »

Hello All,
Thanks for all of your kind words - it does help knowing that you are all there.

Well, I think we've decided to give it one last go - providing that we don't hear anything too bad at our follow up appointment. If that doesn't work then we are going to look into adoption.

I'm feeling a bit better about things today - as long as no-one talks about the treatment or is too sympathetic. Dh has taken this disappointment really badly. He so wants it to work for us.

Hopefully we'll begin the next round asap.

Best of luck to those who are still on the 2ww.

Love
Debbie
Age 40
Dh 42
ttc#1
1st IVF Oct 2004 -ive
2nd IVF March 2005 -ive
3rd (and final) IVF August 2005 +ive


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LittleP
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Post by LittleP »

Debbie

:D :) G O G I R L :!: :) :D

It's great to hear you being so positive :)

Good luck with the follow up and let us know when you go again so we can be here for you. :?

Little P
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Post by DebraP »

Oh Debbie. I'm so sorry. I was so hoping that your news would be positive. Good luck at the follow-up and your positive attitude and outlook do you credit. Give yourself time to be sad too.

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Post by DebraP »

01 Mar - Suze (Sukale) - :D
03 Mar - Danica - :?:
03 Mar - Lesley - :cry:
03 Mar - Wendy - :cry:
07 Mar - Minnow - :cry:
07 Mar - Raji - :cry:
08 Mar - Suz - :cry:
10 Mar - Jude - :cry:
14 Mar - Kimbo - :D
14 Mar - Lumi - :cry:
16 Mar - Debbie - :cry:
19 Mar - Brandi - :?:
20 Mar - Alette - :?:
23 Mar - Sammy - :?:
25 Mar - Amers - :?:
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Post by sammys »

hello, it's sammy, i haven't tested yet and i'm really upset tonight for some reason...i keep biting my dh head off and have NO patience for anything...i had to get out of bed and post my feelings, i'm just feeling very emotional and down(crying spurts), not sure why? maybe just the waiting is taking its toll on me...my beta is 3/23 and i'm trying soooo hard to stay positive but i'm terrified, anyone relate??? Sorry for the gals w/ negatives, it can really suck!!! God Bless Love Sammy
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Post by Brandi »

Oh Sammys,

I am with you on the wait. For one I am glad to have my job that distracts me 12 hours or so a day. Luckily despite all the drugs I am on (PIO ended last night thank God but still on estradoil, prometrium and estrogen patches) I am not a complete wench. It would be totally obvious because i am normally a chipper annoyance! Seriously, I feel what you're going through and hope with all my heart you can get through ok. I know how crazy it is. one minute you are fine and the next you are completely paranoid and then totally impatient and wondering why you have to wait so freaking long.

I have read 3 books since my ET last Wednesday! It takes my mind away. I found reading the day of the ET was dumb though because I kept forgetting what I was reading and drifting about the process I had just gone through.

Anyway, I am rambling. That helps me get through! Best,
Brandi
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Post by DebraP »

Come On Brandi....let's see you being a positive 'chipper annoyance' again!!!



01 Mar - Suze (Sukale) - :D
03 Mar - Danica - :cry:
03 Mar - Lesley - :cry:
03 Mar - Wendy - :cry:
07 Mar - Minnow - :cry:
07 Mar - Raji - :cry:
08 Mar - Suz - :cry:
10 Mar - Jude - :cry:
14 Mar - Kimbo - :D
14 Mar - Lumi - :cry:
16 Mar - Debbie - :cry:
19 Mar - Brandi - :?:
20 Mar - Alette - :?:
23 Mar - Sammy - :?:
25 Mar - Amers - :?:
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Post by Joanne104 »

Good luck for tomorrow with testing Brandi

Sending lots of positive vibes your way!

Joanne
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me 34 - dh 39
ttc 4 yrs
2 ivf -ve
1 ivf Aug 05 +ve, miscarried 5.5 wks
debbieed
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Post by debbieed »

Hello All,
Hang on in there Sammy and Brandi. I know that it really difficult but you are nearly there now.

Brandi - keeping everything crossed for you.

Alette - keeping everything crossed for you too.

Try to find that PMA all of you. I'm sure it helps.

Take care
Love
Debbie
Age 40
Dh 42
ttc#1
1st IVF Oct 2004 -ive
2nd IVF March 2005 -ive
3rd (and final) IVF August 2005 +ive


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