Well said, Little P. Debbie, you are on my mind often. Remember, multiple tries increases those odds!
Hugs to you and all the girls who have had -ve.
Randa
Me 44, DH 40
ttc 0, went straight to IVF
1st EC = Feb 05, 5 frosties, no transfer attempt
2nd EC = June 05, cancelled
3rd EC = Sept 05, 4 frosties, no transfer attempt
4th EC/ET = Feb 06, 3 transf., BFN
5th EC/ET = May 06
TTC 7yrs, Me 35 (severe endo) DH 36
IVF nov06 8th time lucky BFP! - 1 baby boy
FET Aug o8 - BFN
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Hi Debbie,
I am so sorry for you. I know many many comforts is not going to calm you down. But hang in there and I am sure some great surprise is waiting for you.
Hello All,
Thanks for all of your kind words - it does help knowing that you are all there.
Well, I think we've decided to give it one last go - providing that we don't hear anything too bad at our follow up appointment. If that doesn't work then we are going to look into adoption.
I'm feeling a bit better about things today - as long as no-one talks about the treatment or is too sympathetic. Dh has taken this disappointment really badly. He so wants it to work for us.
Hopefully we'll begin the next round asap.
Best of luck to those who are still on the 2ww.
Love
Debbie
Age 40
Dh 42
ttc#1
1st IVF Oct 2004 -ive
2nd IVF March 2005 -ive
3rd (and final) IVF August 2005 +ive
Oh Debbie. I'm so sorry. I was so hoping that your news would be positive. Good luck at the follow-up and your positive attitude and outlook do you credit. Give yourself time to be sad too.
hello, it's sammy, i haven't tested yet and i'm really upset tonight for some reason...i keep biting my dh head off and have NO patience for anything...i had to get out of bed and post my feelings, i'm just feeling very emotional and down(crying spurts), not sure why? maybe just the waiting is taking its toll on me...my beta is 3/23 and i'm trying soooo hard to stay positive but i'm terrified, anyone relate??? Sorry for the gals w/ negatives, it can really suck!!! God Bless Love Sammy
I am with you on the wait. For one I am glad to have my job that distracts me 12 hours or so a day. Luckily despite all the drugs I am on (PIO ended last night thank God but still on estradoil, prometrium and estrogen patches) I am not a complete wench. It would be totally obvious because i am normally a chipper annoyance! Seriously, I feel what you're going through and hope with all my heart you can get through ok. I know how crazy it is. one minute you are fine and the next you are completely paranoid and then totally impatient and wondering why you have to wait so freaking long.
I have read 3 books since my ET last Wednesday! It takes my mind away. I found reading the day of the ET was dumb though because I kept forgetting what I was reading and drifting about the process I had just gone through.
Anyway, I am rambling. That helps me get through! Best,
Brandi