Oh Little P ... they do mess with our lives don't they ... how frustrating. Maybe they were just giving you a ball part answer ... you've been waiting days already, so it can't still be 2 weeks for the results to come back surely ..?
Sandra x
Me 41 yrs old - dh 49 yrs old. ttc 110 yrs.
1st cycle (ICSI)....Mar 04 -ve.
2nd cycle (ICSI)....Aug 04 -ve.
3rd cycle FET........May 05 -ve.
4th cycle (ICSI) ... Feb 06 -ve
5th cycle FET ..... Feb/Mar 11
You've nothing to apologise for ... it's your life that's on hold, so you've every reason to feel a little impatient. Let's send some +ve vibes all the way to Chicago, and will the results to come through faster ..!
Sandra x
Me 41 yrs old - dh 49 yrs old. ttc 110 yrs.
1st cycle (ICSI)....Mar 04 -ve.
2nd cycle (ICSI)....Aug 04 -ve.
3rd cycle FET........May 05 -ve.
4th cycle (ICSI) ... Feb 06 -ve
5th cycle FET ..... Feb/Mar 11
Direction MrT - don't you mess with my LittleP or you'll have me to deal with and I am HUGE and let her know straight away what the options are please OK?
maybe it'll work for you sweetie, it worked when you did it for me
Had a "stamp and stamp and stamp til I am sick" for you
This kind of waiting is not reasonable, it's not the same as waiting for AF or day whatever, it's admin and efficiency GRRRRRR and customer service or lack of....
Love bigJ
PS don't apologise girl, let it OUT
POF+autoimmune+dh antibodies,5.05 DIVF IM M/c 7.5 wks, DIVF+TESE at ISIDA - son 08/06
FET ISIDA: 12.07.07 m/c 8 wks b.ovum, 17 Dec 2007- BFP triplets OMG!!!
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Passport is in very safe place - keep looking at it every day (pathetic )
I'm feeling good called sis again this evening thanx to your post about the ch4 programme - had nice surprise she was so upset that I was so upset that she hadn't videod precious babes for me that she was going to record it and send it to me when I was pg how sweet is that made me cry but in the nicest way
LittleP thx for asking how are you doing really????
love and kisses bigJ (cold and blowy today, good day for a fire and a snuggle with dh )
LOve bigJ
POF+autoimmune+dh antibodies,5.05 DIVF IM M/c 7.5 wks, DIVF+TESE at ISIDA - son 08/06
FET ISIDA: 12.07.07 m/c 8 wks b.ovum, 17 Dec 2007- BFP triplets OMG!!!
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Your sister sounds amazing - it must be wonderful to have her support My brother is great, but hey there is really only so much information he can take
Hi Little P
I can understand your frustration about waiting but I try and chill out with dates etc and know that what will be will be and it will never be as expected but it is all for the best in the end. My clinic are very vague anyway so it helps. I will be having the same tests as you have had on 18th April and will have to play the waiting game as well. By then you should have some answers and will be able to calm me down with words of wisdom!!!
Little P,
For me it was awhile back, but I think it took 4-5 weeks for the result. They had tested me after having gone through many IUIs with clomid, then with injections, then once my ivf failed(my eggs do not stimulate not even w/ drugs!)...My choice was to try IVF again with my own eggs and probably end up stopping the cycle again(about 1% chance it would work), use an egg donor, adopt , or live child-free. We used an egg donor and became pregnant w/ Bryan. We just again tried to make him a sister or brother and got pregnant but miscarring now...Each individual has different odds, different situations. Living child-free was not an option for us. We are now considering adoption. Good luck with your results and whatever you choose to do. For some of us having a child is the biggest struggle in the world, but trust me, you will be rewarded when it happens. My love, Kerry
Sorry Little P, also meant to tell you that I went to two very different infertility clinics over the past 5 years. My first one seems a lot like the one you are at, I was just at a loss for info. The notebook is an ok idea, I think, but a great clinic, like the one I have now, will tell you everything, give you info, call you back in 5 minutes, it is amazing how clinics can vary.
I will second Kerry's post - sweetie I just worry so that you don't get the info and don't get the feedback - don't be scared to change. I mean if its about a few miles oK I was too passive . if we had had our 4th clinic as our first we'd probably have minis by now - but we are now going to Barcelona - I mean Heeelllooo everything is relative
love and kisses bigJ
POF+autoimmune+dh antibodies,5.05 DIVF IM M/c 7.5 wks, DIVF+TESE at ISIDA - son 08/06
FET ISIDA: 12.07.07 m/c 8 wks b.ovum, 17 Dec 2007- BFP triplets OMG!!!
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