Debra, so sorry to read your post. What and awful few days you have had. I hope the physical recovery is speedy and do know that the emotional recovery will happen with time.
Best wishes to you and DF.
Heather
Me 39+4 DH 41
4th IVF May 06 - +ve
Natural conception Sep 07
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Debra,
I am so very sorry to hear this awful news. I had been checking in all weekend and dreaded to worst when I hadn't seen or heard from you. No-one deserves this crap, as the other wise women have said, take the time to mourn and grieve and take good care of yourself. You come back to wherever you feel comfortable in terms of these boards whenever you're ready. In the mean time, enjoy lots of cuddles from your precious Maya and DF..
Thinking of you buddy
Belinda
deb i am so so sorry for your pain...
i wish i had soem words that would help..
i am so glad that you have posted here.. you have been truly missed..
i have lite a candle for you..
i put the link below.. i thought you might like to lite one for your little one..
it hurts to have a mc at any stage. everyone that i have had hurt..
but please know that you do have lots of friends that are here for you..
lovebecky
the candle that i lite for you is under the us and it has bb under it..
any one else that wants to see it can and you can also write a message..
we werent blessed with our babies to raise here but we our blessed with our grandaughter
and all of our many adopted and foster children that touch our lives
and i am glad to add that our 6th grandchild will be born this spring!!!!
when ever you are feeling sad or kind of baby blue
remember that you're not alone.
i'll always be with you
altought i know it makes you sad
that i had to depart as long as there is love
i'll be liviing in your heart
when ever you remember me with happiness and love
the angles sing me lullabyes
in heaven up above.
and though you cannot hold me
or brush and comb my hair,
dont doubt for a minute that iam still right there
for i am with you always
in the shadows of your mind
and if you look around you
its me that you will find.
im the one that pulls your heartstrings when you hear qa baby cry
i m the one that lifts your spirts
on wings of a butterfly
im the one who blows you kisses
onn a warm summer breeze.
im the one who whispers in your ears
in the sighing of the trees.
its me laughing
in a bubbly mountain brook.
yes , i am all around you
if you only look
we werent blessed with our babies to raise here but we our blessed with our grandaughter
and all of our many adopted and foster children that touch our lives
and i am glad to add that our 6th grandchild will be born this spring!!!!
thank you for being brave enough to post your news and to explain what happened so clearly. My heart goes out to you and dh, and I am so glad that you had the care to get you through this and come out well. Words don't help at times like this but I can send you a cyber {{{{{{{{hug}}}}}}} and tell you that I lit a really largecandle in Barcelona Cathedral for all of us when we were there on Friday so it should still be burning for you now.
With very much love bigJ
POF+autoimmune+dh antibodies,5.05 DIVF IM M/c 7.5 wks, DIVF+TESE at ISIDA - son 08/06
FET ISIDA: 12.07.07 m/c 8 wks b.ovum, 17 Dec 2007- BFP triplets OMG!!!
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So sorry about what has happened, can't imagine what you are feeling right now, so close but yet so far, that's what they say isn't it. It's like nearly getting to the top of a mountain only for someone to knock you right back down again. So now you're picking yourself up and setting off on your way up that mountain again. Give youself time to have a rest and get your strength back before you start the journey again. We are all here for you.
I was sooo sorry to read your sad news - sending you lots and lots of love and a big hug.
Love
Julie
Me 32 DH 37 ttc 2years
Male Factor
First ICSI October 04 - cycle abandoned high risk of OHSS
ICSI April/May 05 -ve
ICSI Sep/Oct 05 +ve result 12th October
DD born June 2006
ICSI Oct/Nov08 -ve
Debra
I am so sorry, i to have been checking on the other boards for updates and when i read your post i felt so completely sad for you and DH.
It is all so unfair especially to go through all the physical pain as well as the emotional.
Take some time to heal mentally and physically you have gone through so much.
My thoughts are with you and your family sending you mant cyber hugs.
Kerry xx
TTC 5yrs
ICSI april 05 neg
ICSI August ++++++++++++++
So sorry to hear of your sad news. My heart goes out to you and your DH. What a time you have been through - you are such an inspiration to us all - you have given so much and in the short time I was posting you were so generous with your advice. Please take care and I wish with all my heart that when you are ready again you will surely one day have what you both wish for. Much love to you Debra and yours.