Hi girls,
Thank you for your words of support, i'm feeling a lot better now.
Been out in the garden talking to my next door neighbours (the only couple in our street i like and bother talking to) they couldn't believe the nerve someone had to report us. They said if it comes down to it, they will tell the council one of our cats is theirs and that it keeps coming to our house because her mother and father lives here (which is true, my grey male cat got my white female cat pg last year and we kept a grey and white kitten, we also have a black and white cat who not so long ago had kittens but have found homes for them all), so how can 4 cats be classed as too many?
Michael (my DH) and Mark (next door) spoke on the phone and have come up with a cunning plan, they are going to sit out in the garden when Michael finishes work and have a few beers and talk very loudly about this and make some noise and hopefully get somone outside moaning about the noise, they reckon if somone comes out then they are who reported us, men eh

any excuse for a few beers, lol.
Little P - thanks for the offer of getting the boyz out, might take you up on the offer if Michael's cunning plan doesn't work
Kim - yes it was definately a woman from the council, she's a housing officer
Lumi and Joanne - thanks for your messages, i'm feeling a bit better now.
Anyways, sorry about going waaaay off topic.
Back on topic now and AF STILL hasn't appeared which i'm really hoping is a good sign, this is day 13 and i'm so tempted to do an HPT which is in my bathroom cabinet but Michael will be so mad if i do, he says i have to wait for the clinic to do the test on Monday (which is day 18). This is kinda reminding me of what i'm like in the run up to christmas, i'm so impatient and hate not knowing, it's driving me crazy.
Michael is home at 8pm so i better get a move on and make tea.
I'll check in tomorrow and keep you updated on the AF situation.
Hope everyone is well and trying to keep sane
Take care
Lotsa love
Michelle
xxxx