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erjumper
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Post by erjumper »

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Hi all! I'm 40yo in 2 ww of 4th and last IVF. 1st cycle BFP but lost in 5th week. 2nd cycle BFN. 3rd cycle lost single gestation at 9 weeks. Now 5 days post transfer of 4 blasts and losing my mind with anxiety. This is the last cycle with no more insurance coverage. Sister-in-laws baby shower on Sunday and start new job on Tuesday. What if it's negative? I'm just counting the minutes til HCG but I fear this deep dark depression AGAIN if this is not successful. HELP!?
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Sand
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Post by Sand »

Hi there Erjumper - Welcome to the Site !

Sorry you've been through so much already - everything crossed for you for this cycle !

Pop over to the General Forum, if you haven't already done so, and post on the Aug 2ww thread. That way you'll be with others who are going out of their minds too !

If you post your test date on the Aug Test date thread, we'll add your name to the test list.

Good luck !

Sandra x
Me 41 yrs old - dh 49 yrs old. ttc 110 yrs.
1st cycle (ICSI)....Mar 04 -ve.
2nd cycle (ICSI)....Aug 04 -ve.
3rd cycle FET........May 05 -ve.
4th cycle (ICSI) ... Feb 06 -ve
5th cycle FET ..... Feb/Mar 11
DebraP
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Post by DebraP »

Hi there again, I replied to your post over on the Parents forum. As I said, there are lots of 40+ women on here at different stages of tmt, we try to encourage and support - as does everyone, irrespective of age.

Good luck with the rest of your wait, it is horribly slow and it sounds as if you have other distractions, good luck with the baby shower.

hugs
Debra.
Me: 44, DH: 31
Game Over.
Dates: Aug 02 - May 06
Tries: 5 fresh + 4 frozen.
Results: 1 daughter, 2 m/c, 1 ectopic.
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