I have had the most roller coaster week in my life, did 2 early response tests last Friday and Saturday, then clinics hpt on Sunday - all +ve. Wednesday night I started feeling "funny", Thursday didn't feel well and I ended up miscarrying last night.
I know it's a fact of life and if I'd been trying naturally then I probably wouldn't have even known I was pregnant for those few short days, but I did know and it's the most wonderful feeling in the world.
DH and me have decided to take a big step back from IVF - at this moment in time we are not sure if we will ever do it again. But time is a healer and you never know!
Basically I am writing this message to say goodbye to you all (at least for a while) - I just need to concentrate on other things in my life.
I wish you all the best in everything that you do and I thank each and everyone of you for all of your kind words and support
Joanne
x
me 34 - dh 39
ttc 4 yrs
2 ivf -ve
1 ivf Aug 05 +ve, miscarried 5.5 wks
Wishing you the best start in your new life and hope it will help heal these sad memories. Thanks for all the time we shared and the support you gave us. Please know you are in my prayers.
ttc 6,5year
1st ivf..20/06/05..positive
Baby girl Paris Ruvarashe Born on the 10th of March 2006.
I am so sorry for your loss. Sending you loads of best wishes and luck for whatever you and dh decide to do. Just remember where we are if you need us.
take care
clairx
Me -31
DH - 35
1st Attempt IVF Aug/Sept 05= BFN
Next cycle with ICSI, hopefully April 2006 = BFN
Hydrosalphinx being removed in November. ICSI next year. Last chance saloon!
Take a good rest, it will do you the power of good to be away from it all for a proper break. It broke your heart precisely because you knew for those days you were pg. Many of us know how much it hurts.
Take care,
Debra.
Me: 44, DH: 31
Game Over.
Dates: Aug 02 - May 06
Tries: 5 fresh + 4 frozen.
Results: 1 daughter, 2 m/c, 1 ectopic.
Dear Joanne
I'm sad you're not going to be around but completely understand why you need to be away. My thoughts are with you and DH.
I just wanted to say thanks for all the support and help you've given me - its been lovely to think I've a buddy just down the road.
Thanks again and take care
Love Penny xxxxxxxx
Our paths haven't crossed much but I follow most of the threads on here and I'm so, so sorry to hear what has happened. Life is very cruel. All I can say is you and DH have got each other and that alone is worth everything. Whatever comes in the future would be a bonus, but if not then you still have each other.
I sincerely hope you find your path whatever that may be.
Take care,
claire x
First IVF cycle Feb 05, 7 frosties waiting.
1st FET Aug 05 -ive
2nd FET Oct 05 +ive sadly ended in m/c at 7wks
3rd FET May 06 -ive
4th FET Nov 06 +ive praying hard every day x
I'm 33 and DH is 35 ttc for 11 years
joanne, I totally understand. I wish u all the best so that u can move on and focus on other areas of ur life.
all the best dear x x
TTC 6yrs......Have jumped off the rollercoaster for now, too many BFN's and too much heartache, to keep going....Moving on to fulfil other dreams!!!
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a mc is very very hard at any stage. it doesnt matter if it is 1 hour or 8 months it still hurts like hell.
know that we are here if you need a understanding shoulder..
we werent blessed with our babies to raise here but we our blessed with our grandaughter
and all of our many adopted and foster children that touch our lives
and i am glad to add that our 6th grandchild will be born this spring!!!!