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[kate H]

hi all
i have'nt been on here for while.after my my last fet i felt i needed to take abreak for while from the whole ivf thing.well this me so far.
icsi -ive
icsi ohss in hosp for aweek froze them all
fet -ive
icsi last roll of the dice and on tuesday 11th had a BFP and still in shock.
i now seem to find myself with a whole new bag of worries .
can't wait to have my first scan on the 27th to make sure everything is where it should be.
1 question that is on my mind if anyone could clear up for me.
sorry if it sounds abit negative. but is it right that there is more of a risk of misscarage after ivf .sorry i know thats sounds terrable but it is on my mind .we've been waiting so long for this i just cant beleave it and i'm waiting for something to burst my bubble.
sorry for the long message .
take care all
and good luck
ps
had to message on this forum feel like i'm tempting fate on the preg after ivf side

[pauline69]

Dear Kate

Congrats on your BFP

I don't really know the answer to your question.

Enjoy your pregnancy.

Pauline

[julesg]

Kate
Hi congraulations on your BFP

I don't know the answers to your question sorry - but I just wanted to say you are not alone with your worries. I am very worried about M/C and eptopic

I did just post a question on the other side but like you wondered if that was tempting fate.

Good luck and remember you are not alone in this

Julie

[Cla]

Hi Kate - congratulations!
I'm no expert but as far as I'm aware the % don't differ that much from natural conceptions. The reason why it is more widely known after IVF is because testing is so early. You are far more aware of what is going on in your body - during natural conception most people wouldn't even know they were pregnant.
I know it's easier said than done, but please don't worry. Enjoy the next 8.5 months!!!!

Cla
xx

[Sand]

Great news Kate - I'm thrilled for you !!

Sandra x

[DebraP]

Kate, that's fabulous news thank you, we needed some today!

I don't think there's a higher risk of m/c but as Cla, we know about all of them vs. normal pregnancies that assume an oddly-timed bleed is AF.

Best of luck. Did you see there's a thread just for people like you waiting for their first scan. Bit lower down on the General Forum. You can all nibble your nails together!

Again, lovely to see some good news at last
Debra.

[ogr1]

from what my doctor told me is no. but we are aware of more mc cause we are watched from the start..

he said that alot of wome have mc and dont even know it.
and alot more women are pregnant with twins and one doesnt make it.

i hoped this helped..
i would tell you not to worry but i dont think that would do much good.
enjoy your BFP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!