Hello everybody,
Haven't been here for a while. When the last time I was here, my heart was full of joy and thankfullness, I was 7 weeks pregnant! I had the EC on 9/19, ET on 9/22, on 10/3, I got the good news! My first scan went well too, we saw a strong heartbeat. It had been rather rough weeks for me since then to dealing with morning sickness, but still I was very happy. I had been wishing for this BB for almost 4 years.
At the 12 weeks check up, they told me that they couldn't find the heart beat, and it was measured only 8 weeks. My heart was frozen at that moment. I didn't know why this would happen to me. Everything felt so well, I still got the morning sickness, I didn't have cramping or spoting or anything abnormal. I couldn't believe it. I had them done the ultrasound twice, and went to see my fertility doctor to do another ultrasound, hoping that they made a mistake. But, there were no mistakes, my BB died.
I had D&C the next day.
Sorry, I can't do this right now. I'll be back later.
May
My heart is broken
Oh darling, I am so so sorry.
Thinking of you lots. I can't imagine how you're feeling and can't think of any words to make it better. Look after yourself and take time to grieve
xxxxxx
Thinking of you lots. I can't imagine how you're feeling and can't think of any words to make it better. Look after yourself and take time to grieve
xxxxxx
Bec
My age 33, DH 32
Nat pg & m/c @ 8.5 wks Jan 05
IVF Nov 05 m/c @ 5 wks
3 x IUI 2006 all -ve
IVF Oct 06... BFP! A little boy due 6 July!
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My age 33, DH 32
Nat pg & m/c @ 8.5 wks Jan 05
IVF Nov 05 m/c @ 5 wks
3 x IUI 2006 all -ve
IVF Oct 06... BFP! A little boy due 6 July!
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Take time to grieve. We are all here for you.i am so so sorrry.
what you are going threw is one of the most hardest and heart breaking to go threw.
the best thing that i can say is that you will here alot of different things from people that will make you want to yell at them.
but try and remember that they care and they just dont know better..
you can add your baby to the babies loved and lost thread.
this has helkped me
what you are going threw is one of the most hardest and heart breaking to go threw.
the best thing that i can say is that you will here alot of different things from people that will make you want to yell at them.
but try and remember that they care and they just dont know better..
you can add your baby to the babies loved and lost thread.
this has helkped me
we werent blessed with our babies to raise here but we our blessed with our grandaughter
and all of our many adopted and foster children that touch our lives
and i am glad to add that our 6th grandchild will be born this spring!!!!
and all of our many adopted and foster children that touch our lives
and i am glad to add that our 6th grandchild will be born this spring!!!!
May
I am so very sorry - you take all the time in the world. We will be here for you when you're ready for some friendly support.
Nothing I can say will help, but know that you're in my thoughts and prayers.
Take care
Little P
I am so very sorry - you take all the time in the world. We will be here for you when you're ready for some friendly support.
Nothing I can say will help, but know that you're in my thoughts and prayers.
Take care
Little P
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May
my heart goes out to you and your partner. Just know that we are all here for you when you are ready.
come and rant, and let it all out, whatever..
here is a big big {{{{{{{{{{HUG}}}}}}}}}}}}}
bigJ
my heart goes out to you and your partner. Just know that we are all here for you when you are ready.
come and rant, and let it all out, whatever..
here is a big big {{{{{{{{{{HUG}}}}}}}}}}}}}
bigJ
POF+autoimmune+dh antibodies,5.05 DIVF IM M/c 7.5 wks, DIVF+TESE at ISIDA - son 08/06
FET ISIDA: 12.07.07 m/c 8 wks b.ovum, 17 Dec 2007- BFP triplets OMG!!!
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FET ISIDA: 12.07.07 m/c 8 wks b.ovum, 17 Dec 2007- BFP triplets OMG!!!
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Oh May I'm so sorry to hear your news. Its just so unfair and cruel.
ivf ladies should have some sort of special immunity from tragedies such as this - haven't we all gone through enough in the first place?
I'm sending you all of my love and best wishes. Take care and everyone is here for you when you need us.
Love, Lola
xx
ivf ladies should have some sort of special immunity from tragedies such as this - haven't we all gone through enough in the first place?
I'm sending you all of my love and best wishes. Take care and everyone is here for you when you need us.
Love, Lola
xx
me 39 dh 41
2 ivf, 3 fets - 2 bfn, 3 bfp (1 ectopic, 2 m/c @ 9wks and 12 wks)
3rd fresh ivf - bfp, fingers crossed
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2 ivf, 3 fets - 2 bfn, 3 bfp (1 ectopic, 2 m/c @ 9wks and 12 wks)
3rd fresh ivf - bfp, fingers crossed
[img]http://tickers.TickerFactory.com/ezt/d/1;10053;19/st/20090902/dt/4/k/241b/preg.png[/img]
