Hi Dallas! Welcome to donor egg IVF! Good to see you again. (We did our transfers on the same day in Jan and had exactly the same experience with the BFP :D followed by the negative ultrasound :cry: .) Sounds like your plan is well in place. I am still waiting for the bHcg to come down from the Jan ...

Sorry Dallas, what a bummer. We were really not prepared for the possibility of a negative ultrasound, but are mostly recovered from the shock. Definitely wanting to move on to the next try as you are. This period is pretty heavy, but not unbearable.

Hi Ladies,

AF came, and I'm very happy I don't have to do a D&C. Will start birth control pills if HCG low on Friday. How is everyone? This forum seems to have dwindled down...

I'm thinking of everyone and praying for the best.

Had follow up u/s. Gestation sac still empty. We expected that so were prepared. Now we wait for AF or get a D&C. I'll wait about a week and then schedule the procedure if it doesn't come I guess. Then we follow HCG down with serial blood tests, then wait for another period, then plan to gear up for ...

Dallas, gee whiz, how confusing for you. I wish I could help you understand it. I hope it is all fine. Never knew these ultrasounds could be so scary.

Kerri, Are you sure it is AF? As you probably know, some spotting can happen while preggo. So I guess I would do the beta. You probably know your body and know AF when you see it, but the MD will probably want proof before the next FET. So sorry it didn't work out, if that is indeed the case. We ...

Thank you all so much for your kind support. Honestly, it just means so so much because I know you all truly understand the emotions involved. I was so enjoying thinking there was a growing baby in there. Seeing doc on Tue and will find out about moving forward. For now, just working on letting go ...

Dear Katie and To_Have,

Thank you for your kind consolation. It means so much to tell people who truly understand.

Had ultrasound today. No baby found. Empty sac. Devestated. Three good betas. Now nothing. In shock. Never even considered this possibility.

Hi everyone. Kerri, how'd it go? ET today?

2nd Hcg was good, can't recall number. Will have another one Friday. Wonder when they will refer me to my OB? Hope everyone else is doing okay.

Hop, Sorry for your BFP. Such a let down I know. When will you be able to try again? Best wishes to you.

Kerri,

Thanks for the update. Good luck to you. Hope it goes very well.

SD, thanks. I didn't ask about the beta. Will ask after the Monday check. How are you feeling?

Summit, sorry about the negative. Any thoughts on the future, or are you there yet? I wish you well.

Hi ladies,
We got a BFP today. Still nervous, but happy. Will repeat Monday also, Dallas, and congratulations to you.