Nickster, Boonie and Mom

Hiya

I know you posted a while back but we also have unexplained infertility. Apparently my husband has super-sperm and I'm working right and my bits look 'accommodating'! Its just so frustrating that we cant have what we would most dearly love to have

I've been married a ...

Hi Shantala

Unfortunately it does come down to the postcode lottery we play in this country

I've been lucky enough to have to cycles on the NHS in Bedfordshire (with BFN's I add) but I know in other areas close to here you only get one go

My friend just got refused becuse she also has a child but ...

Hi All

Everything is fine here -got another appointment on the 28th to discuss our final go

Shanny and Anita - Just wanted to say good luck to you - let me know how you get on?

Keep in touch both of you

Deb

Hi Anita

I'm doing ok. Me and DH have been weighing up the options. We are going to give it another shot

Got an appointment with the consultant at the clinic on the 28th and will look to start another cycle in April

Unfortnately it will be our last go - we simply wont be able to afford another ...

Caz

So so so sorry to hear your news - stay strong. I know exactly how your feeling. I'm sure it will happen one day for both of us

Keep in touch - drop me an email sometime and let me know how your doing

Good luck for the future. I'll be keeping my fingers and toes crossed for you

Debxx

Well ladies

Today I had my test and as I suspected,,,,,,Its a BFN! I kind of guessed that yesterday so me and hubby had a good cry yesterday. Today was the confirmation.

Caz - dont give up - stay positive - sending lots of luck your way

Shanny - I hope everything stays ok for you - I'll be ...

Hi Caz

We are bummed big time. I know alot of people have gone a lot more than us (this is our 2nd IVF) but it dont make it any easier does it.

What clinic are you with? Where is it based?

We are at Bourn Hall in Cambridgeshire. You probably heard of it, it's where IVF was pioneered and the first ...

Hi caz

I have a full blown AF so I'm kind of convinced it hasnt worked again

I have to go back to the clinic tomorrow anyway as you have to have the blood test as part of the contract. So I'll either get the BFP or more than likely the BFN tomorrow

I'll let you know how I get on but dont be ...

Ghost

I think its fair to say that everyone experiences different symptoms and different feelings and that no 2 IVF'ers are the same. The symptoms you listed are the 'usual' ones but the list is not conclusive

Perhaps we all feel bloated because we've had quite invasive proceedures over the last 2 ...

Shanny and Caz

Thanks for your words, I'm trying not to panic just yet. I have just 2 more days to wait and then I'll know for sure. Like I said its nothing heavy, I guess a bit like a very light one or even a slightly heavier spotting (if that makes any sense!)

I've done nothing apart from put my ...

Well ladies

I've got bleeding this morning. Although it hasnt come with the usual monthly pains that I get and it isnt particularly heavy

I'm now assuming I am not pregnant and will be getting a BFN when i go to the clinic for my test in 2 days time!

I cant believe I'll have to go through this ...

Monica

So sorry to hear your news. Dont give up hope. You have to keep trying

Big hugs!

Deb

Nope I havent got any either. I'm just bloated and thats about it.

I'm bad tempered too. My husband has just told me he's not going to be around for the pregnancy test!

I thought it was bad enough that he hasnt been to any of the appointments apart from the egg collection!

Jeeez,,,, then he ...

I had my transfer on 31st and my test is on the 13th

My boobs are still not sore and I have had no 'implantation bleed' either.

All I've had is a bloated tum and pains like my aunt flo is coming.

I've now come to the conclusion that no matter how much you grope, or how much you want pains or just ...

Monica

Think of it this way,,,,,, a positive is much better than a negative! Think of it as you are at least half way there to your dream

I wish you all the luck in world - stay positive!

deb x