I too have a wonky cervix - thought I was the only person in the world who had one - seems not eh !!!! My et too was quite painful and took longer than usual.

Sarah,<br><br>Thanks for the info. I'm having private treatment, and it's dh who had an unsuccesful vasectomy reversal, hence us having to have ICSI now, so I'm all okay. I developed OHSS when I had ec back in March, and therefore missed a fresh et, went straight for fet earlier this month, but the ...

Sarah,<br><br>For my next FET (probably in Jan/Feb) I asked my consultant yesterday if having a HCG injection would increase the chances. She said that injections of this kind are only given if I'm in a complete drug induced cycle (ie. taking drugs, go for ec, then 2 days later have et), and not ...

Andie,<br><br>I have just had a failed ET, and too was expecting a very bad AF, but it wasn't at all. Mine came for about 2/3 days, then went for about 2 days, then came back for another couple of days.<br><br>Also, the 3 embies I used all had 4 cells. The remaining embies on ice have 4 cells, 3 ...

thanks lissa, it will be interesting to hear what you are told. I wasn't offered a scan, just a chat really about did we want to carry on with another FET. We can start again whenever we feel ready, so will get xmas out of the way, feel normal for a month or two, and then start again early in the ...

Having just had a failed FET (in a natural cycle)a couple of weeks ago, have met today with our consultant who advised just to do the same again with the remaining embies that we have frozen. Has anyone else had a FET in a natural cycle, no drugs at all, as from what I'm reading some of you seem to ...

Hi Andie,<br><br>Am sorry you're treatment didn't work, it's tough isn't it, but at least you sound positive still.<br><br>I had a failed ET a few weeks ago myself (which was done in a natural cycle). I've got a follow-up appt with my consultant today, and too am wondering what happens next, what ...

this is a very difficult question to answer. I choose not to tell my work, and have been living a lie ever since !! I too have very nosey people at work, and I don't feel that I know or trust them enough to tell them my personal business, but on the other hand, I wish I had of told them, as I feel ...

Congratulations Sarah ...... fantastic, brilliant, amazing news, you must be sooooo happy. Am really pleased for you. x<br><br>[Edited by Nic on 11-Nov-02 15:27]

Sarah .... good luck. It all seems to be going well with no bleeding. Fingers are crossed. x

Sarah, <br><br>Really feel for you .... it's a terrible wait isn't it. After my first FET, my a/f came the night before test day. Good luck, hope the weekend goes quickly for you .....<br><br>

Am interested to read that alot of you took time off work after ET. I went back to work the next day, but obviously took it easy (I was using frozen embie's in a natural cycle). Anyway, I had the worst week ever at work, full of stress & arguements !! Unfortunately the ET failed, so am now thinking ...

good luck during your next 2ww. I feel ready to have another go, but just wonder if it's worth it, was so convinced it would work first time!<br><br>This was first et (frozen), never got a fresh one in after ec as went straight into OHSS! <br><br>will have to save up some pennies to have another go ...

be interested to hear how others have felt & how you've moved on after having a failed ET. Just finished a terrible 2ww, longest weeks of my life! Feel a kind of relief that it's over, but a great sense of loss, failure, and questions liks can I carry on with all of this (have another 8 embies in ...

<br><br>You are right in saying that the more oestrogen you produce, the drugs need to be reduced so that your levels are at a safe level ready for ec, otherwise OHSS is a risk. I was coasted for a few days, and was told the night before that I would be going in for ec, as they were waiting on blood ...