Thanks Suzhan. I have to say that I wasn't feeling old until I started seeing these doctor's this year about trying to have a baby! I sure hope your RE is right, the stats are so discouraging. And to be honest, I'm still feeling so discouraged right now. I'm not ready to stop, but like you said ...

Hi Mortisha,
Thanks for writing, I appreciate it. I'm really sorry that happened that way for you too. It had to be even worse feeling the high of getting a ++ and then to go through that... I know that had to hurt a lot.

Yeah, I'm feeling really low and although my DH and I have agreed to continue ...

The leaflet in my progesterone said those same things about the birth defects, as well as that there is "no evidance that it prevents miscarriges" which I thought was interesting since - isn't that why we're taking it?

I just wanted to ask Ghost to elaborate - because it seems like from reading on various chatboards that the majority of the women who get the coveted BFP did not get it with the first try. I guess that's not the case..

I'm so disappointed and discouraged now after getting my BFN today. I mean how ...

Well, finally tested today. BFN. :cry:

I expected it, not only because of my HPT ealier, but last night I started to spot. Noticed it right before I went to bed and I guess I hoped it would magically disappear by the morning, but this morning was still spotting.

We've decided we will try again ...

Have you called your doctor?
I'm sorry you're feeling hopeless! :(

It's not over til it's over - anything can happen.

What I keep telling myself is that the good thing is all the wondering and waiting will be over Friday, so at least I'll know where to go from there instead of being in this ...

Tinky,
I'm sorry that you're feeling low. I know all about the doom and gloom monster - been fighting it off all week. SIGH. And if just trying to not be a grumpy, weepy B were not enough, my Dad and my Sister are arguing and doing everything in their power to pull me into the middle of it. Keep in ...

Yeah, that makes sense. I know you're right. It's just hard. I just wish it were easier - for all of us. I wish I didn't have to go to work this week - I hate trying to pretend to be in a good mood when I'm not! Well, maybe it's a good thing and I'll actually start cheering up & get my mind off ...

That's right. Mine also started the day of the ER - forgot that they gave me the shot there - it was the next day that my DH had to start giving them to me.

KoshkaBuba - thanks for the words of encouragement - I need them right now!! I noticed you are testing on Friday. I'm sopposed to test Thursday but think because of my work schedule I will have to wait until Friday - so we'll be on the same day. Good luck - I really hope it works for all of us!!

thanks. I know it's not over yet, but I'm sure feeling like it is. I should've waited... been upset all day over this. SIGH

I just did one this am at 10dp3dt with a BFN -

My beta is on Thursday so hoping it changes!

They started mine the day after the ER.

Hi Girls,
I'm new here - been lurking for a few weeks now, this is my first post. I just had my ET on 9/21 for my first IVF. My prob: one blocked tube and high FSH level of 13.8

I'm stressin because I'm turning 38 in December and the statistics drop so dramatically at that point I'm feeling scared ...