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Angel glad your feling a bit better hope your feling more like you soon when are you having transfer (sorry if you said ) god luck with it

Steph that coming home outfit for baby is so adorable good luck with your numbers today

Angie how did things go with the new doc hope it was all good news

Hope yippppeeeeee on getting your meds let the fun start

Stephjim glad that your doc got back to you they should have told you to expect it though

Hi to everyone else will be back later
love Rachel x x
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Welcome back Angel, hope you are feeling better soon. What day are you transfering again? Yay triplets!!!!


Lara, I know I wish that they would have told me, and I guess it is highly possible that they did because I was in the room with the IVF nurse for like an hour that day so with all the info she may have. But it is cool. I had two nurses reassure me.

Steph, I will log on later and check your numbers good luck today.

Got to go to work guys. AGGGGGG
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Congratulations waiting for Mia and Pequele ...on your BFP's... hope betas keep rising x x xx x x

rachel can believe it will soon be your time to pop...53 days...Hope your coping okay with the tiredness. Are you finishing work soon???

love to everyone else

especialy those on 2ww...fingers crossed x x

love jenB
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busy-busy-busy!!!!

steph --- WHEN IS YOUR BETA TODAY??? do we have to wait ALL day or will you have results before noon like on tuesday??? EVERYTHING CROSSED FOR GIANT DOUBLING RESULTS!!!!! :wink:

steph2 -- pretty scary w/ your bleeding :shock: glad you got it all sorted and all is ok.....have fun at work today (ha-ha-ha)

angel -- you poor dear :cry: sounds like you've really been in the shitter --- when this is supposed to be HAPPY time!!! but on a good note --- you'll be bringing home your triplets before ya know it!!! :wink: you'll have to let us know when you test so we can keep tabs on ya girl!!!

mia --- mashed potatoes AGAIN???? must be some damn good potatoes!! :wink: how you feeling anyway??? when is your us??

chriss -- how you doin hun??? just checkin in you...........

new chris --- Image!!!! so where in MI are you?? and what clinic you going to??? only asking cuz i also live in MI as steph said.....as all the other gals said --- we ROCK -- the best thread out here -- by FAR!!!!! you've come to exactly the right place!!! nice to have you on board!!! :wink:

jen1 -- how you hangin girl??? last time we talked you weren't doing so great......just making sure you're still putting one foot in front of the other.....sending big (((((((((((((((HUGS))))))))))))))))

jenb -- wow, it's been awhile.....always a pleasure my dear!!!

rachel -- hope you're feeling as good as you sound!! so excited for you -- not long now!!!!!

well -- sorry i didn't get on last night....didn't get home til after 7pm only to discover dh has the man flu Image and so, eventhough he's in the doghouse still -- i had to tend to him..... what a nice wife i am!! he's damn lucky to have me!!! SO -- new clinic......TOTALLY FABULOUS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! i'm not going back to old clinic.....nope......(i was afraid this might happen) new RE (LOVE, LOVE, LOVE HER) says "you don't need a gestational carrier.....this is not about YOU.......it is your HUSBANDS SMOKING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!" (nice)........says the carcinogens (sp??) directly affect the dna make up of little spermies and that causes them to be fragmented ------ which causes embies to "start out good" -- but just not be able to hang in for the long haul..........says she needs him to quit for 72 days --- thats how long it takes to make new swimmers....... that he can smoke himself dead after we get what we need, but thats what it will take at this point.....she's CONFIDENT that this is the issue based on my history and prior med protocols.....she doesn't think is "implant failure" issue at all..........YEAH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! she also discussed donor sperm --- just saying that IF there was an ounce of interest in going this route --- that she'd switch me to IUI cuz wouldn't need IVF ($$$)..........AND -- she's SO confident that this is the issue that she's willing to go to bat to get us into the refund guarantee program!!!!! unfortunately - dh did not go to this appt w/ me.....and i honestly don't know if he can/will stop (???) so i have some more bridges to cross, but i'm real excited about the new direction!!!!! i'm SO glad you guys talked me into setting up appt at new clinic!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
:-) Angie
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Hope644 wrote: I checked the page but it said only one person was in there!!! AND the last time I did that without KNOWING it was one of you guys, I totally embarrassed myself by barging in on some random people!!
next time go in cuz I have only ever seen 1 person or 0 people....even when there is like 4 people in there! It LIES! if we are there it tells us when you enter...so if we are there ya'll know :)

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waitingforMia wrote:Hope it always says one person in there...
It is probably the SPY!!!
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steph --- your beta?????? when will you know something?????? i'm dyin over here!!! been waiting for ya......
:-) Angie
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Angie- WOOOOOOO I'm loving your new clinic!!!!! I think attitude is 90% of the game and that is sooooo awesome they have so much hope for you! Did you approach DH at all about it last nite? Would he be open to DS? Has he tried Chantix to stop smoking?

Angel- oh I'm so sorry you have been sick! That sooo sucks! Maybe you body is just trying to train you for morning sickness with the tripletts! That is so exciting, I'm glad you chose 3...that means when they all split you can have your own Jon & Kate + 8 show...but it would be Angel & DH +6!!!!

Jen- how's the paperwork going??? Any more meeting scheduled?

Rahel- the count down has begun huh? Less than 2 months to go!!!!! Are you all ready for Ruby's arrival???

As far as my blood work goes, I went in today at 7...I called at 9. Not back yet....DAMN I am heading to my parents allllll day so she will call my cell when it is in. If it isn't on there now I won't get back til tonite to report...sorry! BUT I poas AGAIN today hehe...it was WAY darker...showed up immediately, DEFINITELY there. So I feel good so far today haha.

Ok I'm gonna go check my cell.

If you don't hear back I have no news yet.
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steph -- can't believe you're gonna leave us hangin all day!!!!! i guess dear mum should take presedence over us......i'll be waitin though!!! i'm so thrilled that your line is darker!!! YEE-HA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! was talkin bout you yesterday w/ new doc -- just saying "yeah, i have friend doing IUI" --- cuz she was saying they do TWO inseminations per cycle.....a day apart... and apparently they're success rates are pretty damn good!!! they don't have anything on file yet w/ cdc cuz they are JUST celebrating their ONE YEAR anniversary.....for THIS clinic LOCATION....they are affiliate of RMA - New Jersey.......and moreover --- have doc from CCRM....they have HUGE credentials.....

yep - i'm lovin my new clinic too....AND i even told her "look - i don't want you to blow smoke up my arse about this.....i want your honest, professional opinion...if you don't think we should move forward, then i'm at a point where i'm ready to concede to that....but otherwise......" and she basically said "look - i have a lot on the line by saying YES to you w/ 2 prior chemical bfn's.....i would not take you on as my patient and go to bat for your w/ the refund guarantee program unless i thought we could get you a baby!!!" YEAH!!! far as DS ----- right now, not an option...... i really, really, really WANT dh's swimmers......i want a part of him w/ me forever and ever.....HOWEVER, i'm not opposed to ds if that's what it comes down to.....and no -- didn't discuss the "no smoking" details w/ dh last night -- he looked/sounded like death warmed over......was NOT the time to do it.......
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I soooo agree with you Angie. Finally a doc that points out that hey were are not doing anything wrong if they would just quit those damn cigarettes we would not have this issue right???

I hope it does not take the doc saying I have a BFN after ivf to get him to quit. I honestly don't know if I could do it again. I think I would be too mad if the doc finally says that, you know?
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:cry: Girls

This is going to sound very selfish but i dont know if i cant come onto the site much longer. I am having real problems and feel so low and am just so unhappy. I just want to have some good news and unfortunately that is never going to happen now. Having my Own baby was stripped from me after cycle no 4 and i cant deal with the pain any longer.
Yes i have a chance of adoption but although i'm sure it will be great---doesnt feel like it just now----i cant help grieve for me and dh's own child.

I feel visiting the site just now is too painful. Might feel different about this in a week, 1 month, 3 months who knows. Hope you understand.

Just to let you know i passed all my stuff and was accepted for the police so have that to focus on and have the social worker visiting weekly to do our forms for the Panel, so i'm hoping this will keep me busy and try to help heal the pain.

Good Luck to everyone

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Post by waitingforMia »

Jen1d: We totally understand. I am sure you have thought of this but maybe you should put the adoption on hold for a bit sweetie. I just want to mae sure you have so more time to heal. We are all pulling for you and will be here when you are ready to come back.

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awwww jen1.................Image i wish there was SOMETHING i could do to make it all better......to take all the pain away.......you'll remain in my thoughts and prayers.......take care you......((((((((((((((((((((((((BIG HUGS)))))))))))))))))))))))))))) see you when you're ready............
:-) Angie
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hello!!

Angel- So sorry you are sick! :( I hope you feel better soon. I am so glad you and dh decided to transfer 3. I am with Steph, you and dh will have your own show, Angel & DH plus six!!!! :lol: When is your transfer?

MOMMA Mia- How are ya feeling Momma? You must be really enjoing those taters!! How is dh? Is he over the moon?

Angie- WHOOOO HOOOOOO!!!! I am soooo freaking glad you got a 2nd opinion!!!!! SO SO SO SO happy for you. Sorry to hear about DH having the man flu. So when will you be starting your next cycle? So excited for you!!!

Lara- How are you?

Steph 2- I hope it doesnt take a bfn for dh to quite smoking. I wish I could do something to make all of our DH stop smoking.

Jen Babes- How are you doing? :D

Steph1 (aka- TURTLE QUEEN)- WHAT? we have to wait for your numbers?? That is totally wrong. cant wait to hear about your numbers and the litter!!!
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Jen1d-

I am so sorry. I know how bad this hurts. I shut myself away from everyone when we first found out. I really wish I could take away your pain. Remember we are all here for you. Make sure you go to your counseling. I will pray for you and DH. Always will be thinking of you...
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