Carolyn, glad you found the counselling useful. Did you say there is a 12 month waiting list of EDs???
Ok, I don't know the validity of this idea but definitely read somewhere a while back that some woman who did not want to wait for too long for an ED privately advertised for one in the local newspapers and said she would reimburse expenses incurred. Now I don't know more details about how it all works, but may be worth talking to your clinic about whether that is an option?
This website has a list of all clinics in the UK, I used the IVF league table to pick our clinic. Its seems a bit OTT to me, but if calling them all will help, then maybe try doing that while you are off work.
When do you go camping? Just so I know to take my umbrella with me then

Must admit, the idea of camping does not appeal to me at all - I like my homely comforts. As DH says I'm too much of a princess to go camping.
Does that mean you won't be online?
