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uhh ohh... :oops: :oops: I did a Sophie!!! :shock:

I went on and on babbaling I forgot to talk to my dear friend Angie!!!! SO SORRY!!!

SO, your weekend sound like a good time. I always say...if it is FREE it is for ME!!! :P I can imagine what your DH is going through. Plus, like you said, men his age think they should be supporting the family. It is a total hit to their ego. :( I hope he finds something GREAT soon!!!!

Well, my sis is coming over tonight and we are decorating. Then tomorrow, me, my sis, my mom and G ma are going shopping. GIRLS DAY!!! WHOO HOO!!! I am really excited because for some reasong...My mom cant do anything with out her DH... :( So it will be special!!!
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Yep Sophie, I see that Carolyn is slackin' :lol:

Oh my gosh, I cant believe that even more. he expects your dogs to be all by themselves???? that is so sad and mean. They LOVE You and DH. That would hurt their feelings so bad. They want to be where you are at all times. Especially if they here you and other people. That is just NOT acceptable. :(

When Mollie or Charlie start coming around while we are eating we just tell them to lay down and stop begging. They lay down and it is fine. We dont tell them they are bothering us or tell them to go awaay....so mean.... :cry:
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love to sign on and read-read-read!!! is my lunchtime entertainment :wink: and i HAD to add my 2 cents to the conversation cuz we also have a "doggy-child".....his name is murphy...he will be 3 on 12/23.....and he is def part of the family!!! we have similar issues when we go out of town as far as where to keep him cuz our family is nowhere near us and so not an option to have them sit for him....we have found a decent doggy kennel not too far from us.....but speaking of doggy kennels --- so with dh being out of job......i had this brill idea that we (he and i....but he would mostly run it) build/open/operate a doggy hotel of our own!!!!! and ya know how they say "location-location-location"..... yeah well --- there is an empty farm field right next door to our vet that i think would be the PERFECT place cuz EVERYBODY asks their ver for referral on where pets can stay??? how cool would it be to basically have instant customers cuz of location??? is all just ideas at this point.... haven't even shared w/ dh cuz i'm afraid he might well have a heart attack at the thought of spending (investing) money that we don't have... haven't figured that one out yet --- the how to finance it part..... but i've been mullin over for some time now.......not sure it will ever come to pass -- but sure is fun to think about!!!!!

wretched boss ---- thought she wasn't going to be here at all today... i was wrong......must go now --- she calling!!!
:-) Angie
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Hello girlies!

Miracle!
Oh, please don't start naming personal-forgetting "Sophies"! Gah!!!! :shock:

So, what decorations will you make tonight? Sounds like such a fun night! We usually spend our Friday nights taking it easy and renting a DVD. We're slowly going through the last season of Desperate Housewives... we both love that series! And we'll also go to the vet tonight for the annual visit (ouch wallet!) for our cat Moïra and our girl Daria. We'll also bring our boy, beacause I found the YUCKIEST pus on the tip of his penis this week... We have no idea what that was... it was creamy, ivory... his penis was in, so it was in the foreskin... go figure, we didn't know if it was an infection or... sperm? Really weird. Never reappeared during the rest of the week. Weird weird weird.. And of course everyone will have their claws cut, so no more noise in the house! LOL sometimes it's SO SCARY.... LOL they cut it really nicely short, and then the dogs make NO NOISE at all when they walk around. I swear it takes me a few heart attacks to get used to it... you mind your own business and then turn around and SURPRISE! the dog is right there! :lol:

Ah, Miracle, lol, I can see you're one hen mommy as we say here! A very protective mama with her furbabies! ;) Oh, I can talk, they melt my heart each time they look at me.

Hey Angie! Good to have you around! I LOVE the idea of opening a dog hotel!!! We played with it for a while ourselves... now that people are working more and more hours, and that the number of stay-at-home moms is decreasing, there is a real need for that kind of service. Location is indeed the key my dear, and that field looks perfect! If you want, I could give you the number of the kennel we go to. I mean, she is a very successful business owner, and I'm sure she could give you appropriate advice. It's not like you'll steal her profits! ;) She doesn,t have a website, unfortunately...

But in addition to being a hotel, she also offers, you know, spa services for your animals. Which is a plus, because sometimes when we leave the dogs there, we ask them to cut their claws. They have a separate house for the cats, and another one for the dogs, far away down the field. There is a first room when you come in; that where they store the dog's food and toys and such. Then you open another door and the boxes are there. They have three walls and a fenced door; the walls are quite high, 6 feet or so, but they don't reach to the ceiling so the dogs don't feel so caged in. At the end of that room, there's a door that leads to a corridor of fences. Those lead to open fields, delimited by high fences that the dogs can't jump. And they pair the dogs that way, two by two, and they let them out to play and poop and whatnot three times an hour, and half an hour before bedtime. Believe me, the dogs have so much fun socializing that they miss us, but they're not traumatized at all.

My husband says that, should he change his career or quit his job or if the research center closes, he would consider running a shelter/hotel like that with me. We'd LOVE it! You should really start calculating and make a business plan... I'm sure your husband would feel more comfortable if you presented the idea with a clear plan... ;)

But you're right, either way, it's fun to think about it!

Okay ladies! Time for me to work a little before a meeting at 2pm! Take care!

Sophie
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Hey girls!!!

Angie that is such a fantastic idea!!! It is the perfect job!!!! I mean I am sure it would have ups and downs like any job but it would be so much fun. Your idea for the location sounds awesome too!!! I can tell you have been really thinking about it.

Yep Sophie! I am a mother hen!!! But that is ok. I dont mind. I wish my dh would watch dvds with me. He sucks. He hardly ever will watch a movie! Well we are putting the tree up and all that good stuff!!! :wink:
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OH!! Angie, I love your puppy dogs name!!! Very cute!!! :D
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Miracle08 wrote:OH!! Angie, I love your puppy dogs name!!! Very cute!!! :D
awwww thanks mir :wink:

hey - in case i forget or don't have another chance to log on -- hope you have a fab time "rockin' around the christmas tree" this eve! is my advice that you have christmas ornament in one hand and cocktail in the other!!! (cuz we can still do that ya know --- have a cocktail???) oh and shopping w/ the girls --- have fun with that too!!!

soph -- enjoy your eve of desperate housewives!!! and for the record -- how on EARTH have you convinced your dh to watch "girly crap"??? my dh rolls eyes at the very SUGGESTION of having to watch any kind of "chick flick"!!! :roll:

bye girls......yak at ya on monday!!!
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Hi guys!

Super quick note! I'm about to leave the hospital! WOOHOO!!! It's Friday!!! YAY!

Miracle sweetie, have fun with your decorations and all-girl shopping spree! And tell us all about it on Monday! :D

Angie dearest, I don't know what happened, but we watched the first episode and we were both hooked! My husband HATES chicks for flicks and he is quite picky when it comes to what he watches. Go figure, we both fell in love with that series and we've been watching it since. Our other pics are House, Bones, The Office, Lost (but we lost interest after the 3rd season). 24 is very manly, but we both can't stand it! My husband ADORED Six feet under, but he started watching it without me, so I couldn't go through it with him. But we're both interested to give Dexter a chance next... It's just fun to rent that on DVD, no commercials, you watch two on Friday and another two episodes on Saturday evening... not too long, not too short, plus you have the thrill of waiting until the following week to watch the next episodes... ;)

Okay, gotta go to the train station, grab that baguette and GO HOME! Weeeeee! take care ladies!

Sophie xxox
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Ladies,

Sorry Sorry Sorry to hav u worried .....

I promised i wouldnt turn into one of those ladies who talks about herself and her pregnancy all the time (an i wont honest) just cant stay long .... im shattered - all of a sudden ive got the (Blerrrrrrrkkkkssssss = sickness) Its not like ive even actually been sick - just constantly heaving in my throat. Ive been to Docs cos ive lost another 5lbs since i found out - i have no appitite - but she assured me that it was ok, cos i have had the cold aswell. But the baby will zap all my energy an this is why im suffering so much at the moment.... The last 2 days all ive done is sleep - which really is good cos since i been on the 2ww, ive only been managing 3 hours a night ..... im knackerd ladies so am sorry i havent been on chatting.

I promise u i will be back tho - an be my normal happy go lucky self ... i still thank the lord EVERY single morning (weather im heaving or not lol) for his gift ... an i pray for all my dear friends here too ....

Love u all, but have to go an lay down....

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hey Becky - soooo glad is was just the exhaustion and nausea keeping you away.. yo had me worried :roll: :roll:

Take care hon and you get plently of rest for those 2 little beanies snuggling in :lol: :lol:

Did you have a beta test by the way - just wondered what numbers where

Take care honey xxxx
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I am sorry ladies - I was around yesterday was reading but did not have chance to post :roll: :roll:

Mir - sounds like a heaven weeknd - you enjoy xx

Sophie - should you not be thinking about resting up and not entertaining the masses :lol: :lol: - I love to cook too and all the preparation for christmas x

Ang - hope you enjoyed the concert and had a few bevvies - I am sure DH will find the right job - I can only imagine how difficult it will be for him to sell himself and be positive if he is feeling so low - hugs to you both honey xxx

Angel - hugs as always xxx

Welll the tree is up and smells lovely .. I just love christmas - was raining last night so DH got to put lights up outside today - if he manages to get out of his man flu pit :lol: :lol:

Hoping he will as there is a huge christmas market at Lincol this weekend that I would love to go to - ice skating, fun fair, glu wein (sp ???) and the list goes on xx

Will not be around much next week got the week from hell doing consultations for redundancy at work ... I hate doing it anyway but even worse at this time of year .. makes me feel like Becky prob feeling right now :lol: :lol:

Take care all have fab weekend and catch you all soon xxxx

Carolyn xxx
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wishfull27 wrote:
Did you have a beta test by the way - just wondered what numbers where
We dont have that done hun ... but i purchased loads of pee sticks (just 99p for a pk of 2) from chemist - really crap basic ones - but im deff still pregnant, it shows up on those as soon as i pee lol (even in the evening pee too lol) Had to do that for my own sanity, my scan isnt until Jan 5th (i will be 9 weeks by then) seems an age to have to wait that long ... so i will keep peeing till then lol

Anyway ladies,

How are u all .... i see the site becomes very active during the week (when u lot are at work lol) i have been trying to keep up, but u go so quick lol ... are all ur xmas decorations up?? Mine are - i just love xmas ladies, DD is comming home from Uni next week too .... it will be great to have her home full time .... we are down MIL's for xmas dinner this year, so that should be fun. I just hope i get thru the day without puking lol .. ..

Any ideas ladies on what i can get DH for xmas????? Im stumped really, he says he doesnt want anything in particular, but i do like to get him summit nice. Maybe i'll just get lots of wee little things and put them in a stocking for him? What are u ladies doing for your DH's for xmas???

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Hi Becky

yes all the decs are up.. it looks sooo lovely!

we been to chrstingle service this afternoon at village church and then they had chrsitams fayre and switched on the lights to the one solitary chrsitams tree :lol: It was soo lovely - really cold and crisp with carol singers and free hot dogs, burgers, mulled wine and mince pies.. just made me feel all christmassy :lol:

Think you have laready got DH the best prsent ever .. not got any other ideas really - nothing me and Dh want either really so we are just going to spend £20 each and buy crappy gimmicky stuff :roll: :roll:

Hows everyone - else - all very quiet over the weekend!!

catch you all in the week

love Carolyn xxx
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Congrats Becky. I am so happy for you. We all knew it was coming.
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beck ----- PHEW!!!!!!!!!!!! i for one would like to say that i am SO relieved to hear from you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! was getting really worried :? so while i'm not "happy" that is just cuz you're sick........ i am thrilled that the only reason is cuz of yer wee ones making momma pukey :D is what we've all dreamed of for so long ya know??? hang in there hun... will be so very worth it in the end!!! :wink:

mir --- did ya get all your decor up?? and girls shopping, how was it??

soph -- good weekend catching up on desperate housewives??? :wink:

angel............my dear sweet girl........still sending lotsa (((((HUGS)))))

carolyn --- yes, had a lovely time at the concert!!! thanks for asking.... am SO hoping you're right about dh finding the right job.... poor guy... thanks for hugs.....always so very appreciated!! speaking of dh's -- how's yours w/ his man flu symptoms??? all gone?? did you end up getting to go to market at lincol for all the festivities?????

as seems to be my story lately -- can't stay long....have lots to do at work as we get closer to end of the year and w/ all holidays and time off coming up --- if i WANT to be able to be off --- i need to get my work in order :? will try to check in at lunch.....

LOVE & HUGS TO ALL!!!!!!!!!!!!!
:-) Angie
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