Anderjam- welcome! so sorry about your bfn. it's great to see that you're being positive & going forward by trying again. it WILL work for ALL of us this time around

are you doing a fresh cycle or did you get to freeze any embbies in your previous cycle? i know what you mean about being overwhelmed. now i know what to expect, so hopefully that will relieve some anxiety.
rlk1- if you & dh are thinking about taking it easy & taking some time off until after january than you should. the fact that you're thinking about that is an indication that you just need a little more time. the less stress & the more pma, the higher the chances of a successful outcome. take ALL the time you need. we'll be here for you whenever you decide you're ready. i think your decision to transfer one (two if the thaw process isn't as great) is a good one...these decisions are so difficult to make, so whatever decision anyone makes, he/she will ALWAYS question it.
Arabsrcool- sounds like you're moving right along! that's great! keep us posted!
BlessedMama- glad your hysterscopy went well & there aren't any issues
cheekyone- thanks so much for checking in & for the positive words & support!
rayofsunshine- when's your dd's b-day? i completely know what you mean about keeping quiet about this upcoming cycle. a few people know, but i will definitely be a little more quiet about it this time around. I'M VERY THANKFUL TO HAVE ALL OF YOU AS WELL!!!